Eden here we come

I had expectations I'd discover inspiring things and people on this trip. Although I wasn't sure what I would find, I was hopeful something would blow me in a new direction.

Tim Smit is a beacon of hope and the kind of change agent I was seeking. I had heard about his projects before coming to Cornwall, but seeing them in action put his passion into perspective.  Both the Eden Project and the Lost Gardens of Heligan are the friggin bomb of ambition, spirit and imagination.

Here is a link to a talk he did about beauty. I won't recant it, but will leave it to you to check out. Do it now: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ULz5hJDfPtE

Tim's dream and determination has transformed a Cornish quarry into an enterprise of beautiful and epic proportion. The Cornish micro climate is the unlikely, yet perfect, location for rainforest growth.

Tim knew little more about gardening than Alfie when he embarked on his enormous projects. He hired the best, managed like a pro and had balls of steel.

Pretending we're in Malaysia. The climate in the rainforest section of one of the Eden domes was built to imitate the jungle heat.

Hot and hilarious children.

Winding up the hot paths of the rainforest dome.

Sticky, curly Alf. In the matter of minutes he was drenched in the rainforest. It made me miss South East Asia like crazy.

The Lost Gardens of Heligan was a day trip I won't forget. I entered a little grumpy due to the foul, grey weather. After hours of wandering the magnificent spread of re-discovered gardens I was grinning alongside my 5 year old. It took us all to a magical place.

A little lost in the Heligan jungle.

Floral face worth kissing.

The restored vegetable gardens had a bounty as far as the eye could see.

Crannies made just for 4 footers.

Monster leaves!!! Is this the day of the Triffids?

This bridge was tricky work for the tinies. It took them forever to get across.

I'm lost. Is this really Cornwall?!


Dreamy Daylesford

Apart from London, the Cotswolds was my other home in England. From aged one to ten, I spend weekends at my Granny Paterson’s house in Fiffield (with Irene and Bryan). I didn't remember much about the area, apart from my granny's house, so I was excited to explore it as an adult.

Charlie and I peeked in the back fields of the house Saraguay. My father's parents bought this house in the 1960's. It was pretty run down when they took ownership but my Granny saw to it that it be recovered in the manner it deserved. She collected items from their travels and re-built the house into the perfect property to entertain guests. I have countless memories of playing in the warren of themed rooms (yellow room, red room, dining room, study, kitchen etc), rose gardens, green house, pool and grounds with my cousins' Astrid and Tristan and brother James. The four of us moved around like a wild pack, dreaming up imaginative games and plotting fun schemes, while the grown ups relaxed or partied. When our family sold Saraguay in the 80's we all felt the loss. It was like a part of our family was no longer accessible. 

I didn't have the nerve, or desire to go in this time. I wanted to leave the memories as they were.

During our visit to the Cotswolds we stayed at the Potting Shed at Daylesford Farm, otherwise known as the Harrod's of the Costwolds. This organic farm, shop and institution is owned by Lady Bamford, the wife of Sir Anthony Bamford, billionaire owner of JCB construction.

We were wowed by our 2 bedroom cottage on the Daylesford property. It was bright and beautiful at every turn with tons of nooks to sit, read and relax.

Big, sumptuous beds to snooze in all day. Not that we did. Wake ups are around 6:30am with our lot.

The children disappeared for hours in this fort-like kids room.

I spent most of my time next to the AGA (which is a fancy English stove that emanates heat)

Roasted Bream in the AGA. Divine.

Sophia's clams. We steamed them with Daylesford white wine, garlic, butter and parsley. She didn't save me one!

The instant heat from an AGA makes everything more delicious.

Sophia sets a mean table. IT has to be perfection. She doesn't get that from me...

Ingredients for our meals were only a few steps away.

The Daylesford Farm Shop had nearly everything one could need for a feast: wine, olive oil, prepared foods, vegetables, fish, meats, cheese. All top notch quality. All fiendishly expensive. When in Rome...

The Daylesford complex also housed a garden shop, clothing store, nursery and cafe.

The Cotswolds isn't a large area.

You can literally walk most of the Cotswolds towns in 10 minutes, which we did. The Tudor and storybook style houses in many of the towns look as if they haven't changed a bit in over a 100 years.

Stowe on the wold--a typical town in the Cotswolds.

There are still thatched roofs. I can't imagine the effort it takes to build a roof like this.

Cotswolds countryside view.

I'm keeping the kids entertained while Charlie dips into Antique shops.

Welly boots are essential. After the wetness got too much we headed to the big city 'Stratford Upon Avon' to buy Sophia and Alfie some wellies.

We took the kids to the Farm Park. It's a perfect destinations for the little ones. All types of animals, games and farm life education. Alfie's about to squeeze a baby chicken in his chubby hands.

The tractors were the biggest hit!

Feeding the lambs and goats...all by themselves.

Walking through a town.

Stopping for a squidge and pose.

Crikey! That's a tennis court.

The fields are filled with massive oak trees. Redwoods look out!

Trundling along on a walk. Daddy is leading the pack to a pub.

Terminal warmth

I’m going to get a bit squishy on this entry; I can’t help myself, I have to.

Inner warmth is a marvelous wonder. Some people have glimpses of it. Some people are repelled by it (I'm not sure why, but I’ve seen it happen). And certain superstars beam it from their eyes, limbs and voice. Irene is one of these people.

I couldn't hold back. I needed to squidge Irene non-stop.

I haven’t seen Irene in over 25 years but that doesn’t matter. The memory of her incredible and reverberating warmth still stands strong.

Irene and her husband Bryan were my granny’s housekeepers during the 70’s and 80’s. They had cooked, cleaned, driven, gardened and run the family home ‘Saraguay’, and more importantly they added a gift of nurture and integrity to our eccentric family when we needed it.  As a young child, I spent nearly all of my weekends in Irene’s company. She smelled like clean linen and flowers. Her hair and clothes were always immaculate. A smile shone from her round, soft face like a beacon and her arms welcomed all of us into her huge and jongling embrace. The sing-song tone of her voice (and trademark expression), ‘bless, ohh bless’ could settle any wobbler. She is a large woman, both in size and love and the perfect guardian for children, adults, pets...anything really.

When the chance came to visit her in the Cotswolds--I jumped on it. Seeing her again made my heart burst. She hadn't changed a bit. Sophia and Alfie played with her, as I must have. But this time I was the adult watching on. I could barely take my eyes off her or stop myself from going in again and again for a soft embrace. When we left, I cried like a baby.

Bryan told me Irene has terminal cancer. I’m pretty gutted to know that she won’t live forever but fortunate to be blessed by her influence.  What a lady to have in my life!

All of us at Bryan and Irene's house. Their home is beaming with pride. It's tidy beyond belief and tended with so much love and care.

Irene's heart of gold still melts me.

Mr. Alfie loved her immediately. Who can blame him?

Walking the green near her old house.

Still a little girl at heart.

Lunch at Dinner

Dinner by Heston – was an extravagant lunch, not the sort we normally (ever) have. We accepted the invite from Adam and his lady-love Amy with excitement and high expectations from the 2 Michelin star institution. The concept restaurant by the famed Heston Blumenthal and Ashley PalmerWatt had been inspired by historic British gastronomy. Diners at Dinner would cough up serious dough to sample what British aristocracy had been noshing on hundreds of years earlier. We knew we were in for some elaborate food with a serious bill.  Would it be worthwhile?

Charlie and I arrived on time. I hate tardiness with a passion. But this time it gave me a moment to realize I was seriously under dressed (totally forgot to get out of kid-romp clothes). As we waited for our friends I looked around the civilized, if not staunch, room feeling a tad uncomfortable.  The dining room was packed to the gills with people lunching in style.

Adam and Amy arrived ready to eat. The look of love didn't notice what I was wearing. Besides...Adam wore sneakers and a sweatshirt.

I had their famed starter Meat Fruit (c.1500) - Mandarin, chicken liver & foie gras parfait, grilled bread. A perfect imitation of a mandarin filled with a soft unctuous pate. It was entirely edible (save the leaves) and melted in my mouth. The portion seemed tiny, but was so rich I couldn’t finish it. A glass of Bandol Rose helped cleanse my palate before the next course. I didn't take a pic of my Earl Grey Tea Cured Salmon. It was so small I ate it in a flash. The dish was light, fresh and a bit too perfectly composed for my liking.

Adam's Roast Scallops (c.1820) Cucumber ketchup, purple sprouting broccoli & borage

Here's Charlie's Ragoo of Pigs Ear Chewitt (c.1750) with slow cooked egg, anchovy, onions & parsley. My gut tells me this dish wasn't as composed in 1750.

Alright I'll get to the point. Did I like it? I did, but I didn't love it. We loved the company, but I realize I don't dig highly composed food.  There's a wildness I love about fresh, real food. Food made with love and passion isn't the same as food so tight it looks as if it's been composed with a tweezer. The best part of the meal was seeing two people totally into each other.  We all shared a gorgeous dessert Tipsy Cake (c.1810). The grilled pineapple and sticky toffee pud was the best bite of the meal.